Meet Kendra Turley. Kendra is a 22 yea old senior from Houston, Texas. She’s majoring in Mass Communication with a concentration in Broadcast Journalism. She’s involved in multiple organizations on campus such as LSU Ambassadors, STRIPES, Tiger TV and much more!
We all know that February is the month of love. Whether that’s a love for king cake, crawfish, a significant other or family members. Everyone is a little more understanding, a little more passionate and a little more caring around this time. Love fills the air!
However, for students… this is the month that we take our first exams. This is the month where it gets a little bit harder to balance work, school and a social life. This is the month where we are in desperate need of EXTRA love!
As a senior, I’ve experienced my fair share of Valentine’s Days at LSU. So I’ve listed some ways that you can show your student some “extra love” during this holiday!
L – Listen
We will have a lot of emotions during this time. It might be excitement. It might be nervousness. It might be disappointment. It might be loneliness. Whatever it is, we will call you and want to talk about it. The most important thing you can do is listen. Listen to us vent. Let us get it all off of our chest.
Offer advice. We may be too stubborn to admit it sometimes but we really do take your advice. Offer support. It’s easy to get the feeling like “we’re on our own and all alone”. Remind us of the support system we have back at home. Offer money! Now wouldn’t be such a bad time to transfer some change into that bank account (even though we over-drafted last month).
Do not hesitate to pay your student a visit! Seeing the family can be the turning point in a student’s semester. Sometimes they need to realize how much they miss that annoying little brother. Whether it’s for a couple of hours or a couple of days, family visits are the best.
Food is our friend! It gets us through everything! it is the answer to all of our problems. Take us out to eat. Send gift cards to our favorite restaurants. Surprise us with a cookie cake or a care package! You’ll be surprised how big of an impact goldfish and gummy worms can have.
Now, this is just a guideline. Every student is unique. However, one thing I know for sure is that every student wants to feel a little bit of #extralove from their family during this time.
Happy Valentine’s Day!